What Your Customers Actually Remember — Weekly Retail Tidbits #258
What Your Customers Actually Remember
“We are not in the coffee business serving people, we are in the people business serving coffee.”
— Howard Schultz
There’s an Instagram reel going around about how Trader Joe’s trains its cashiers. I shop there a couple of times a month, and never leave without a good feeling — but I’d never thought much about why.
So I got curious and shopped there this week, just to pay extra attention to what the cashiers said and did at checkout. I went through the line, and out to my car with my first bag of groceries… and then walked right back in, grabbed something, and checked out with a different cashier.
Two experiences. Both great. Both cashiers greeted me warmly and looked me in the eye. They didn’t say the same thing, but both seemed genuine — and it was evening near closing time.
The first one commented on my cottage cheese and sweet potatoes. She said she loves that combination — it had never occurred to me to eat them together — and that their everything bagel seasoning is really good on it, too. Hmmm.
Whether or not I try it, I walked out thinking about all three products she’d mentioned — two I’d bought, and one I hadn’t.
The second experience was quick. The guy whose line I chose was chatting with the customer ahead of me. As they wrapped up and I set down my bottle of whatever sauce I grabbed, he asked how I was — about as jolly as Santa Claus. Seriously happy. He rang me up, asked if I needed a bag (um, no), gave me my receipt, and told me to have a great night. Off I went, smiling, wondering if I should put it in the car and go back in a third time. LOL.
How does Trader Joe’s do this?
They hire for personality and train the rest. No required greeting, no “Did you find everything?” — cashiers are trusted to read you and decide whether to chat, compliment, or keep it quick.
Onboarding is about culture, not selling. New crew get a culture-and-mission orientation, then shadow someone experienced on the floor — no checklist, no lines to memorize. They even role-play it, one crew member and one “shopper,” so conversation gets practiced, never scripted.
Crew taste the products constantly. That’s how my tired cashier knew the everything bagel trick — Trader Joe’s has her tasting and talking about product all the time.
Employees are trusted to act on their own, with far fewer layers of approval than most chains, so they can make the moment theirs.
And “WOW” is a stated company value — one they frame as genuine human interaction, not automation.
You can’t buy any of this. It’s practiced, not purchased — and it’s the one thing a competitor can’t copy. Even if someone ran the exact Trader Joe’s playbook, it would come out different: different store, different products, different people, different everything. That’s not a weakness. That’s the moat.
Who do you hire?
What do you teach them on day one?
What does your store value — and does your team actually know it?
Your customers remember actually being seen.
xoxo,
❤️ AmyFay
Technology Tip
Is AI a Person? Or Just Good at English?
This week I sat down with one of you, a shop owner finally ready to bring the gift side of her business into a real inventory system after years of tracking it by eye. Explaining AI to her at its most basic level, I watched it click.
Computer language used to be code, something you had to learn to tell a computer what to do. Now the language is plain English. That doesn’t make AI a person, it just means it talks like one. That’s why it feels so human, even though it’s still only a tool that speaks our language. You don’t have to be technical to use it, you talk to it the way you’d explain a task to whoever is helping you on the floor.
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AmyFay Chandler
She reads all of this so you don’t have to. Based in Knoxville, TN, AmyFay is a wholesale sales rep for the brands she represents across Tennessee and Kentucky, and she oversees the D2C side for Sweet Tree Jewelry and Caroline B Cook — two of those brands — making sure brick-and-mortar retailers always come first. She writes Weekly Retail Tidbits (now in its 258th issue) because she’s living the same questions her retail customers are living, and figures things out alongside them. Her whole project: helping independent retailers stay human while the rest of the industry tries to automate them away.
Also from AmyFay
Two of the brands I represent run their D2C side through me, with brick-and-mortar partners prioritized at every step:
- Sweet Tree Jewelry — school-spirit polymer-clay earrings
- Caroline B Cook — children’s books (the Virtue Series, Church Kitty)
Wholesale questions? [email protected]
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